What Was Revealed to You In Church (Or What Did Church Lead You to Think About Yesterday), 4/12)?

LDS beliefs are firmly based in the idea of continuing revelation — both revelation to the Church as a whole, and personal continuing revelation to each of us. But sometimes we limit this idea by our assumptions. I think many of us assume that personal revelation comes at home, in personal prayer and contemplation. I’m quite sure that this assumption is incomplete.

So, couldn’t revelation come to us at Church?

And, if it can, are we actually looking for it at Church?

In these posts I am trying to suggest that each of us can have better experiences at Church if we take responsibility for our experiences, and if we are open to what we can be taught to us in many different ways. We can choose to learn and benefit from what happens regardless of whether it fits our perception of what is “good.” Revelation, I believe, can piggyback on whatever communication will be successful in reaching our spirits.

Revelation sometimes depends on how we look at it. It is not different from what many artists figure out—they understand that how you see the  world before you is more important than what you see. You might call it ‘active listening’ or shifting perspective. It just means that you see differently. And seeing differently reveals a different world.

In my case, I tend to focus narrowly, thinking about groups of words or sentences, sometimes taking them out of context and thinking about what they say, even if the speaker didn’t intend what I heard. It’s not at all like what we’re taught in school, where the focus is on understanding accurately and completely what the speaker or text says. Its about pulling out useful or inspiring thoughts in spite of what was said.

So, if you aren’t thinking this way, maybe try it next Sunday, or the next time you are in a class or meeting. If you have already thoughts inspired by what happened at church, what are they? How did you react to what happened in Church yesterday? What did you notice? Did you end up thinking differently? Do you think your reactions were what they should be? Were they looking for what God had to tell you? Did your reactions make things better?

This is the latest invitation for reactions to local meetings, continuing the spirit of my post on September 25th about how we receive what happens in Church meetings—sermons, lessons and anything else—and enter a conversation with them, magnifying what was said or adding what we think. In these posts I’m asking us all to think about how we listen and receive what happens at Church. If we only listen for mistakes, or things that bother us, what does that say about us? Is it most important to criticize others? Or to try to change ourselves?

The point here is that no matter how poorly prepared the speaker or teacher is, or no matter how what happens triggers us, or is objectively or doctrinally wrong, we can still find elements in what is said and what happens that inspires and edifies us. Even if church meetings aren’t conducted in a way that reaches us, we can take responsibility and find a way to feel the spirit.

So please, write down reactions and thoughts to what happened in Church. You might keep your own ‘spiritual journal’, or, if you like, you can post your reactions below. I’m adding my own reactions and thoughts as a comment to this post — instead of as a part of this post, because my reactions aren’t any better than anyone else’s.

Let me emphasize that this is NOT a place to criticize what is wrong with church or your fellow congregants. The point is to post what you learned because of what happened at Church or how that led you to think. It’s about the good things we can get out of Church, not the negative things that disturbed or upset us. It doesn’t have to be orthodox, traditional or even on topic.

If you like, make your response in the format, “They said or did this, and I said or thought that.” Even the things you dislike the most can be turned into lessons for what the gospel teaches we should do.

My hope is that these reactions serve as an example of a better way to treat what happens at Church instead of the perennial complaints about speaker or teacher preparation or ability, or complaints that the Church should do things differently.


Comments

6 responses to “What Was Revealed to You In Church (Or What Did Church Lead You to Think About Yesterday), 4/12)?”

  1. Here are a few of the things I thought about because of attending Church meetings yesterday (4/12):

    • One of my favorite testimonies was from a woman who spoke about her relationship with the Savior, saying “I’m asking Him to hang out with me.” I must admit that kinda flies in the face of our busy, goal-oriented western lifestyle here in the U.S. Shouldn’t we want to just ‘hang out’ with the Savior?
    • Another testimony started “Good morning sisters and brothers.” I love flipping the normal order.
    • Yet another testimony said, “Its really hard bending a square peg in a round hole — but while I don’t always feel like a part of the Church, I do feel like a part of this ward.” Oh, I wish more people could say this. I think about 50% of the people that I’ve heard talk about why they left the Church have said that they didn’t feel accepted or welcome in their wards. I think every ward in the Church should be trying very hard to help everyone feel welcome—especially those that are ‘square pegs in a round hole.’
    • Following that, another testimony suggested that our responsibility is to “see the divinity in others, and amplify it.” That’s not easy. It requires intention, and changing the way we think about others. So, I think I have to add it to my ‘to do’ list, so that I think about it every day.
    • Speaking of ‘square pegs in round holes’, in the branch I’m attending Sunday afternoons, I noticed a man who came to Elders quorum dressed very unusually. He was in all black, but sported brightly-colored pins, stickers, rhinestones and other items bedazzled to his boots, armbands and red headscarf, topped off with a small electric sign attached to one boot that rotated the word “Messiah.” Unusual, and kinda spectacular. It made me wonder why we focus so much on traditional, understated dress—is that really better? Or is it simply a culturally-bound assumption about what is best? Should our clothing say something about who we are and what we believe? And if so, why can’t it be obtrusive?
    • Then, in that same Elders Quorum meeting, another brother talked about how the atonement had affected his life, saying that “God had taken his mess, and turned it into a message.” I thought it was kinda like what the bedazzled brother had done.
  2. My wife and I had been out for a walk in the morning and spent quite a bit of time talking about how complicated life was (family, work, Church). Then when I got to Church, I was greeted by so many loving people. I heard their testimonies and felt that things weren’t as complicated as we had talked about. We just need to love God, and love our neighbours.
    I know can still be complicated, but attending Church and being “fellowcitizens with the saints” was reassuring.

  3. What I’ve learned – and continue to have confirmation for – is that there are some very good people within “the Church”; but as for its’ meetings – there’s not much there (other than taking the Sacrament) for people to be uplifted by. Sad, but True.

  4. Julie Nichols

    This morning in testimony meeting, the first person up brought her Bible, read from Ezra, and testified that the war in Iran is a repeat of King Cyrus’s liberation of the Jewish people, and it strengthens her testimony of the rightness of God’s plan. I was pretty gobsmacked. Thank heaven a few testimonies later a young man who has lived in the Czech Republic for eight years stood up and said, “This is hard for me to do, but I must talk about the Ukrainian refugees we had in our homes when Russia invaded Ukraine, and I must talk about the Iranian people that I know whose lives are shattered by this war, and I want to drive home that we are all brothers and sisters, all of us, Iranians included, and I am grateful God is a God of miracles, I am grateful for many things, but not that war…” He spoke calmly and without a spirit of contention and I was so grateful he spoke for those of us who are shocked and horrified by Trump’s actions.

  5. I’ve been thinking about how we’re all in different chapters of the same book of life. When you’re talking to someone at the beginning of their story, you have to be careful not to rush them or spoil what they’re meant to discover for themselves. You have to let them have their adventure, to grow into understanding the way you once did.

    And yet, those early chapters carry something special, the excitement, the wonder of first discovery. It’s something people further along in the book often miss, even mourn a little, because you can’t go back and experience it the same way again.

    Being a saint among others in different chapters can feel isolating. Either you see things they don’t yet see, or feel things others can’t quite return to. It can be lonely, even in a highly connected community.

    I’ve usually clung to a deep testimony of brother and sisterhood and marveled at the beauty of our diversity,- all ages, backgrounds, stages, etc. united in the gospel. But here’s the paradox: are we a community or a lone traveler? Yesterday, I felt the other side of that truth, that oftentimes I walk alone.

  6. A sister I respect deeply spoke in testimony meeting about how most of her long-time friends are no longer in the Church, and she gets why. But she just doesn’t like herself when she adopts the cynical mindset that her friends have, tempting as it is, so she chooses not to think that way.

    I’ve long thought that being aware of how the gospel has made us better is probably the most durable foundation for a testimony. An awareness of how abandoning the gospel would make us worse works too.

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