, so I won\u2019t retread that ground, but a step below beliefs we want to criticize are beliefs that we essentially don\u2019t agree with, but, to paraphrase Jefferson, \u201cneither picks my pocket nor breaks my [or anybody else\u2019s] leg.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nThe fact is that if I had to choose between having a son who had the same wholesome vibe as the Evangelicals (or Latter-day Saints) but who thought that the earth was 6,000 years old versus one who got the age of the earth right but was a Hitchens-type who was a miserable human being in their personal life, the right choice should be obvious. Of course we don\u2019t have to make that tradeoff, but still, on the list of things I hope my kids get right in this life the age of the earth or the descent of man is pretty far down there.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nWhile I think we\u2019re pretty good about respecting such beliefs that have sufficient distance from ours, I\u2019m surprised at how rather benign beliefs in our own backyard can trigger people. Evolution is one of those. We\u2019re reading from the same bible, so it\u2019s easy to be flippant about their beliefs because we have more secure exegetical grounds. Similarly, a Latter-day Saint who would never dream at scoffing at a Muslim who had an idiosyncratic but sincere take on Halal will often roll their eyes at a fellow member who doesn\u2019t drink caffeine.<\/span><\/p>\nIn religious liberty jurisprudence there is an interesting rule where the court can\u2019t adjudicate theological claims as long as they\u2019re sincerely held. So if a prisoner says \u201cas a Mormon, I need to wear red shoes, so you should accommodate that,\u201d the Supreme Court can\u2019t say \u201cthat\u2019s ridiculous, Mormonism doesn\u2019t talk about shoe color at all.\u201d What matters is that that person has a sincere belief that their Mormonism stipulates that they wear red shoes, and then the court goes from there. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nIn much the same way, I don\u2019t see why caffeine, R-rated movies, or evolution are any different than a particular interpretation of Rabbi Akiva or this or that Hadith. (Of course that doesn’t mean we can’t disagree openly with the belief or argue against it in certain appropriate contexts.) I don’t believe that the earth is 6,000 years old, but I also don’t believe that Mohammad was a prophet, and I see no more or less of an obligation to not sneer at and maybe even accommodate religious beliefs whether they\u2019re coming from my own backyard or not.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"For a couple years my kids attended an evangelical homeschool co-op. For those who are aware of the idiosyncratic dynamics of religious homeschool culture in the US, this is no small feat. Typically we Latter-day Saints were not invited to participate since they often involve signing some statement of faith that usually includes some trinitarian formula, so we usually hang out with the secular homeschoolers.\u00a0 But anyway, somehow we got them to make an exception for us and my son was attending a school with very, very Protestant people. Like, one of his friends did a campus visit to Liberty University. Overall, it was a fine education, with one exception, which you can probably guess.\u00a0 I wasn\u2019t terribly worried that he was going to lose his \u201ctestimony\u201d of evolution (and even if he did, I admit to not really caring that much), even when he came home with a logic handbook that used evolutionary arguments as their examples of bad logic. We thought it was actually a neat experience and good training to be able to hold a contrary belief in a crowd and adroitly, appropriately, and politely handle it. 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