{"id":52183,"date":"2025-12-22T03:19:21","date_gmt":"2025-12-22T10:19:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/?p=52183"},"modified":"2025-12-22T18:35:33","modified_gmt":"2025-12-23T01:35:33","slug":"bah-humbug-why-we-dont-do-santa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2025\/12\/bah-humbug-why-we-dont-do-santa\/","title":{"rendered":"Bah Humbug: Why We Don\u2019t Do Santa"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-52188\" src=\"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/unnamed-1-3-800x437.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"800\" height=\"437\" srcset=\"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/unnamed-1-3-800x437.jpg 800w, https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/unnamed-1-3.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Years before we moved into my high school ward the bishop there\u2013the classic 1990s Utah conservative curmudgeon type\u2013announced from the stand (I imagine as parents were quickly trying to shield their children\u2019s ears) that Santa Claus was not real and that parents should not lie to their kids. The man has since passed away, but he is an absolute legend to this day.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While I find acting as some kind of mythbuster holiday edition without parental permission problematic, we do not in fact do Santa Claus in our house. This is in no way to cast judgment on those who do do Santa Claus, just one perspective.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before my parents told me the truth, I often wondered how the Santa Claus world interfaced with the religious one. Did God give Santa his powers? There was clearly some connection since it was on \u00a0Christ&#8217;s birthday. When my parents told me the truth, I remember openly wondering what other supernatural things they were telling me that would later turn out to be well-curated myths designed to keep us well-behaved. My wife, having not been raised with Santa, didn\u2019t have that experience (evidently her sister first heard of the man in a red suit who came down chimneys at her elementary school and told everybody that was the stupidest thing she ever heard), but she knows other people besides me who had the prepubescent Santa Claus-induced religious crisis.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And then when I hit high school\/college the New Atheists were in vogue, and the \u201cJesus is Santa Claus for adults\u201d one liner became a favorite among the secular Bro types. So the Santa Claus\/religion interrelation became complex enough that we thought it was simpler to simply have a rule of never intentionally telling our kids an untruth.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So far it\u2019s worked out for us. Maybe our kids have had less magic in their lives, I don\u2019t know (as a fun aside, in a moment of four-year old rebellion, years ago my son defiantly told us that he didn\u2019t believe in God but he did believe in the Santa we told him didn\u2019t exist.), but the \u201cJesus is Santa Claus for grownups\u201d is simple and superficially appealing enough that it just seems like a more even keel to always keep a fairly significant distance between the two.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Years before we moved into my high school ward the bishop there\u2013the classic 1990s Utah conservative curmudgeon type\u2013announced from the stand (I imagine as parents were quickly trying to shield their children\u2019s ears) that Santa Claus was not real and that parents should not lie to their kids. The man has since passed away, but he is an absolute legend to this day.\u00a0 While I find acting as some kind of mythbuster holiday edition without parental permission problematic, we do not in fact do Santa Claus in our house. This is in no way to cast judgment on those who do do Santa Claus, just one perspective.\u00a0 Before my parents told me the truth, I often wondered how the Santa Claus world interfaced with the religious one. Did God give Santa his powers? There was clearly some connection since it was on \u00a0Christ&#8217;s birthday. When my parents told me the truth, I remember openly wondering what other supernatural things they were telling me that would later turn out to be well-curated myths designed to keep us well-behaved. My wife, having not been raised with Santa, didn\u2019t have that experience (evidently her sister first heard of the man in a red [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10403,"featured_media":52187,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[54,14],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-52183","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mormon-life","category-parenting"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/unnamed-1-2.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52183","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10403"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52183"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52183\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":52248,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52183\/revisions\/52248"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52187"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52183"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52183"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52183"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}