{"id":415,"date":"2004-02-10T23:14:45","date_gmt":"2004-02-11T06:14:45","guid":{"rendered":"\/?p=415"},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T06:00:00","slug":"thoughts-mine-and-others-on-raising-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2004\/02\/thoughts-mine-and-others-on-raising-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Thoughts (Mine and Others&#8217;) on Raising Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had thought I&#8217;d write something about Mormonism and lawyers today (look around: they&#8217;re <i>everywhere<\/i>!), but as it turned out, all my blogging time and energy was taken up by a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.crookedtimber.org\/archives\/001302.html\">discussion<\/a>, started by Harry Brighouse over at the group blog <a href=\"http:\/\/www.crookedtimber.org\/\">Crooked Timber<\/a>, dealing with child-rearing, commercialism, and the degree of control one can (or should) exercise over the environment in which you raise your kids. Harry&#8217;s post, to a certain extent, is a follow-up on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.calpundit.com\/archives\/003176.html\">another<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.crookedtimber.org\/archives\/001259.html\">intra-blog<\/a> discussion (in which I also <a href=\"http:\/\/philosophenweg.blogspot.com\/2004_02_01_philosophenweg_archive.html#107590863628748931\">participated<\/a>) dealing with a much simpler question: why don&#8217;t kids walk to school anymore? But the current dialogue is going way beyond that, dealing with a whole range of matters including tv watching, popular culture, neighborhood planning, PBS, computer games, and much more. There&#8217;s even some pretentious (yes, <a href=\"http:\/\/philosophenweg.blogspot.com\/2004_02_01_philosophenweg_archive.html#107643714364101980\">me again<\/a>) thinking about the connection between religious belief and the intellectual capacity to resist the demanding, materialist, careerist tempo of modern life. It&#8217;s been one of the most thought-provoking online discussions I&#8217;ve ever been involved in. (Warning: we&#8217;re all a bunch of liberals and leftists over there. However, part of what makes the discussion intriguing is that Harry begins with the premise (which I think is obviously correct) that devoted Christians have by and large done a good job shielding their children from the ugliness of the dominant culture, and that leftists could learn from them. Anyway, read it and see for yourself.)<\/p>\n<p>Does it have anything to do with Mormonism? No, not really. So why am I mentioning it (and providing all the links) here? Three reasons. 1) I greatly value the insight and advice of my many fellow parents here at <b>T&#038;S<\/b>, and would love to read, in the comments either here or there, what you all have to say about managing your childrens&#8217; time and environment, particularly as regards the media, but also in connection to other things (play dates, unsupervised play, etc.). 2) Why else? Pride and <a href=\"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/archives\/000353.html\">priestcraft<\/a>. 3) Nobody has posted anything new all day, and as impressed as I am by the intellectual fireworks to be found in <a href=\"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/archives\/000382.html\">certain<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/archives\/000391.html\">threads<\/a>, I thought it might be helpful to provide a slight distraction from such important, intense, ethically fraught subjects as abortion, same-sex marriage, euthanasia, etc. So anyway, enjoy (or not).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had thought I&#8217;d write something about Mormonism and lawyers today (look around: they&#8217;re everywhere!), but as it turned out, all my blogging time and energy was taken up by a discussion, started by Harry Brighouse over at the group blog Crooked Timber, dealing with child-rearing, commercialism, and the degree of control one can (or should) exercise over the environment in which you raise your kids. Harry&#8217;s post, to a certain extent, is a follow-up on another intra-blog discussion (in which I also participated) dealing with a much simpler question: why don&#8217;t kids walk to school anymore? But the current dialogue is going way beyond that, dealing with a whole range of matters including tv watching, popular culture, neighborhood planning, PBS, computer games, and much more. There&#8217;s even some pretentious (yes, me again) thinking about the connection between religious belief and the intellectual capacity to resist the demanding, materialist, careerist tempo of modern life. It&#8217;s been one of the most thought-provoking online discussions I&#8217;ve ever been involved in. (Warning: we&#8217;re all a bunch of liberals and leftists over there. However, part of what makes the discussion intriguing is that Harry begins with the premise (which I think is obviously correct) [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-415","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-corn"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/415","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=415"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/415\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=415"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=415"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=415"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}