{"id":40691,"date":"2020-08-05T11:03:19","date_gmt":"2020-08-05T16:03:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/?p=40691"},"modified":"2020-08-05T11:03:19","modified_gmt":"2020-08-05T16:03:19","slug":"what-i-miss-about-home-church-and-why-i-need-to-go-back-to-sacrament-meeting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2020\/08\/what-i-miss-about-home-church-and-why-i-need-to-go-back-to-sacrament-meeting\/","title":{"rendered":"What I miss about home church\u2014and why I need to go back to sacrament meeting"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve heard multiple people say how much they\u2019ve enjoyed the last five months of home church (and these are auxiliary presidents and bishopric members, the kind of people you can count on to substitute teach a Primary class in a pinch). Studying the scriptures however they want, and worshiping each Sunday as a family? More, please. Now that my ward has resumed meeting (masked, in every other bench, without congregational hymns, for a 25-minute sacrament service with spiritual thought), there\u2019s a lot to miss about home church. Ranked:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Homemade sacrament bread<\/li>\n<li>Only the good hymns<\/li>\n<li>\u201cFast Sunday\u201d-sized sacrament bread and water<\/li>\n<li>Starting time: Least common denominator<\/li>\n<li>Couches instead of padded pews<\/li>\n<li>Lessons that start with, \u201cLet\u2019s go for a walk.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Wearing pants to church isn\u2019t an act of protest; it\u2019s the one absolute rule everyone <em>must<\/em> follow.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>So there\u2019s a lot to miss. We could sing together at home, unmasked. We could take as much time as we wanted, or as little as we needed. And it turns out that convincing everyone to wake up, get ready, and leave the house on time is not actually the best way to prepare ourselves for worship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>But now that we can, this life boat from the Good Ship Zion needs to redock with the mother ship. Maybe you\u2019ll get to do home church for a while longer (and I\u2019m expecting we\u2019ll get a few more opportunities here too before all is said and done), but eventually you\u2019ll need to go back, too.<\/p>\n<p>The problem with home church is that it means licking the frosting off the cake, week after week. It\u2019s fantastic, but we also need spiritual fiber, fresh vegetables and whole grains. It\u2019s too easy for me as an individual or us as a family to focus on our favorite topics and avoid what we don\u2019t want to hear. Eventually, even the best intentioned of us will start to drift into our own favored side currents. Home church doesn\u2019t challenge us with the gospel of Jesus Christ as filtered through the experience and perception of another human being.<\/p>\n<p>For example:<\/p>\n<p>At the last regular sacrament meeting the Sunday before everything stopped, the visiting high council member was giving a deeply moving account of his conversion story and how his baptism impacted his personal life and his work in a professional medical field. I noticed that the Youngest Deacon was fiddling with his phone, so I nudged him and said, \u201cPut your phone down and listen, this is important\u201d\u2014just in time for the Youngest Deacon to hear the speaker to say, \u201c\u2026because Darwinism is a tool of the Devil, and always will be.\u201d I tried to ask what he thought at the end of the meeting, but the Youngest Deacon wasn\u2019t talking and still looked troubled when he left the chapel for his next class.<\/p>\n<p>On the drive home, I asked how everyone had enjoyed church. The K-Drama Expert said, \u201cI liked the high councilor\u2019s talk, although I think what he meant was that an atheistic worldview isn\u2019t compatible with the gospel.\u201d Everyone\u2019s Best Friend added, \u201cI could see that his experience was important to him.\u201d And the Youngest Deacon explained that after sacrament meeting, he decided to read Genesis 1 and 2, and he saw that the progression from water to land to plants to animals matches what we know about the formation of the earth and evolution pretty well. That\u2019s pretty good for the Youngest Deacon, I think, certainly good enough for now. More importantly, he found that when he heard something troubling, he could study, read the scriptures, and find answers. And that\u2019s an experience he couldn\u2019t have had without listening to a visiting high council speaker.<\/p>\n<p>We flatter ourselves that a challenging sacrament meeting talk is a bit of sermonizing whose politics just happen to agree with our own, while making our neighbors in the pews squirm, but usually the things we find most irritating are precisely what we most need to hear. Sometimes it\u2019s because those things are a part of the good word of God that we\u2019d prefer to overlook. But the truly challenging talks are often ones that force us to think, to search for meaning, to sort out correct and incorrect, and to double-check what the scriptures say and the prophets teach. And that\u2019s what I can\u2019t get at home church.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve heard multiple people say how much they\u2019ve enjoyed the last five months of home church. Studying the scriptures however they want, and worshiping each Sunday as a family? More, please. Now that my ward has resumed meeting, there\u2019s a lot to miss about home church.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":67,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40691","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news-politics"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40691","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/67"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40691"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40691\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40693,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40691\/revisions\/40693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40691"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40691"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40691"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}