{"id":3979,"date":"2007-07-24T04:08:58","date_gmt":"2007-07-24T08:08:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/?p=3979"},"modified":"2007-07-24T10:05:05","modified_gmt":"2007-07-24T14:05:05","slug":"the-hafens-on-equality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2007\/07\/the-hafens-on-equality\/","title":{"rendered":"The Hafens on Equality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>ECS wrote about this article over at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.feministmormonhousewives.org\/?p=1264\">FMH<\/a> [1]; I&#8217;d like to take a different perspective on it&#8211;I want to tell you what I liked about it. [2]<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>(1) First and most importantly, the article makes very clear that the LDS Church does <strong>not<\/strong> believe that wives should submit to their husbands.<\/p>\n<p>(2) They explore how unexamined assumptions from one&#8217;s upbringing can affect thinking as an adult.<\/p>\n<p>(3) They point to the errors of &#8220;traditionalists&#8221; (who want women to be dependent on men) and &#8220;liberationists&#8221; (who want women to be independent of men) and call for marital interdependence.<\/p>\n<p>(4) They cite Elaine Pagels&#8217; <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Adam-Eve-Serpent-Elaine-Pagels\/dp\/0679722327\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1\/002-4701401-6670460?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;qid=1185238682&#038;sr=8-1\">Adam, Eve, and the Serpent<\/a><\/em> in the footnotes.  <\/p>\n<p>(5) They really try to grapple with scriptural texts; although I don&#8217;t entirely agree with their parsing of &#8220;meet&#8221; or &#8220;ruler,&#8221; I give them high marks for trying.<\/p>\n<p>(6) They quote the President Kimball quote that should be the final nail in the coffin for the ever-pervasive folk doctrines surrounding the meaning of &#8220;presiding&#8221;:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>No woman has been asked by the Church authorities to follow her husband into an evil pit.  She is to follow him [only] as he follows and obeys the Savior of the world, but in deciding [whether he is obeying Christ], she should always be sure she is fair.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(7) Elder Maxwell&#8217;s line about the error in the Church that the men have been the theologians while the women have been the Christians is a good one and well worth repeating.  The story about Elder Maxwell graciously submitting to his wife is a nice touch, too.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<\/p>\n<p>[1] What&#8217;s up with her getting the Ensign at least four days before me?  And it still isn&#8217;t online.<\/p>\n<p>[2] Like ECS, the &#8220;women are naturally more spiritual than men&#8221; position&#8211;which is included in this article&#8211;has never seemed true to me.  But I grant that it may just be me&#8211;maybe normal women are more spiritual than normal men and I&#8217;m hanging out on the tip of the bell curve.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>ECS wrote about this article over at FMH [1]; I&#8217;d like to take a different perspective on it&#8211;I want to tell you what I liked about it. [2]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3979","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-corn"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3979","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3979"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3979\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3979"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3979"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3979"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}