{"id":3853,"date":"2007-05-07T01:24:02","date_gmt":"2007-05-07T05:24:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/?p=3853"},"modified":"2007-05-07T01:34:32","modified_gmt":"2007-05-07T05:34:32","slug":"educational-equality-between-spouses-not-a-one-way-street","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2007\/05\/educational-equality-between-spouses-not-a-one-way-street\/","title":{"rendered":"Educational equality between spouses:  Not a one-way street?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In October conference, President Hinckley made an interesting statement about marriage, education, and equality between spouses.<!--more-->   <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lds.org\/conference\/talk\/display\/0,5232,49-1-646-23,00.html\">He said<\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Women have earned more bachelor&#8217;s degrees than men every year since 1982 and more master&#8217;s degrees since 1986.  It is plainly evident from these statistics that young women are exceeding young men in pursuing educational programs. And so I say to you young men, rise up and discipline yourself to take advantage of educational opportunities. Do you wish to marry a girl whose education has been far superior to your own? We speak of being &#8220;equally yoked.&#8221; That applies, I think, to the matter of education.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>There are some interesting implications from that statement.  <\/p>\n<p>First, there are some potentially problematic implications.  The implication is that men will not &#8212; perhaps should not &#8212; want to marry women who have a superior education.   It is not clear whether this line is meant solely descriptively, or whether it is meant as an endorsement of that standard, or as a normative statement that men should not marry women whose educational credentials surpass their own.  If the latter, there are a number of potential implications.  We already know that <a href=\"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/?p=1858\">intelligent and educated women are sometimes at a disadvantage when seeking for a marriage partner<\/a>.  This statement might worsen that trend.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are some surprising, strongly pro-feminist implications of this statement as well.  There is no reason on the face of it why the language on spouses and being &#8220;equally yoked&#8221; should be limited to men marrying superior women.  Under President Hinckley&#8217;s logic (that educational disparity creates an unequal yoke), it may be a problem of unequal yoke if a man is married to a woman with a superior education &#8212; <em>but won&#8217;t the yoke be similarly unequal for a woman married to a man with superior education<\/em>?  Under President Hickley&#8217;s reasoning, it seems, the yoke will always be unequal if one partner is more highly educated than the other &#8212; regardless of which partner that is.  And if a marriage is in this situation (unequal yoke), isn&#8217;t there an implication that the partners in the marriage should take steps to ameliorate the concern?<\/p>\n<p>Thus, President Hinckley&#8217;s statement can be read as a very strong, pro-feminist mandate:  Women who are married to men who have superior education should go back to school.  Otherwise, the marriage will be one of unequal yoke, and that is not acceptable.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In October conference, President Hinckley made an interesting statement about marriage, education, and equality between spouses.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-corn"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3853","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3853"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3853\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3853"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3853"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3853"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}