{"id":15754,"date":"2011-05-24T04:00:04","date_gmt":"2011-05-24T09:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/?p=15754"},"modified":"2011-05-23T14:43:45","modified_gmt":"2011-05-23T19:43:45","slug":"does-gender-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2011\/05\/does-gender-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Does Gender Matter?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><center><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/gender.png\" alt=\"Gender LDS\" title=\"Gender LDS\" width=\"228\" height=\"177\" class=\"size-full wp-image-15760\" \/><\/center><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: right; \"><em>~ The Family: A Proclamation to the World<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Gender is part of who we are and who we have always been. It is important. It matters.\u00a0The church uses gender to delineate authority, callings, and roles:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: right; \"><em>~ The Family: A Proclamation to the World<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Last night my third daughter graduated from seminary. On the back of the program, I noticed all those in the seminary &#8220;chain of command&#8221; for her seminary program. There were 24 people listed from the Timpanogos Region Board of Education, the Utah Valley North Area, the Church Educational System Executive Commitee, and The Church Board of Education.<\/p>\n<p>Of those 24 people, two were women. (Those two women \u2014 Sister Julie B. Beck and Sister Elaine, S. Dalton \u2014 were the only people listed without an official title or position. But that&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/2010\/03\/do-titles-matter\/\">another post<\/a>.) In her four years in seminary, there has been one female seminary teacher in her school&#8217;s program, but she was never assigned to her class. (We live in Utah where &#8220;released-time seminary&#8221; \u2014 with full-time, paid teachers \u2014 is typical. The only time my kids have been taught seminary by women was in &#8220;early morning&#8221; seminary, with &#8220;appointed&#8221; (and unpaid) teachers.)<\/p>\n<p>If gender matters, if the distinction means so much that we define life roles based on gender and we include\/exclude people from callings, actions, etc., based on gender, and we acknowledge deity based on gender \u2014 if men and and and women are intrinsically, inherently, eternally different, and that difference really matters \u2014 then can a church authority structure comprised almost exclusively of men address the needs of women sufficiently?<\/p>\n<p>For the record, the general response I hear to similar questions (besides, &#8220;Why do you want to be a bishop?&#8221; sigh) is, &#8220;God is running the church. Of course he can provide men with the needed insight to serve women.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>While I agree in theory, I don&#8217;t generally think God poofs most of us with knowledge, wisdom, and insight we haven&#8217;t earned or learned. And I don&#8217;t think men generally understand women as well as they understand men. I&#8217;ll give an example.<\/p>\n<p>A few years ago (2003?), when I was serving in the Young Women leadership in my ward, I went to Salt Lake for the annual auxiliary training meeting on Temple Square. (Unfortunately I haven&#8217;t yet unpacked my notes on this, so I will leave out names until I can be sure my memory is correct.)<\/p>\n<p>One of the featured talks was given by a member of the general Young Women presidency. It was held in the chapel of the Joseph Smith building. The woman told how she had been in a meeting with a member of the quorum of the 12. She got up to leave and as she was going through the door \u2014 and as some other general authorities entered \u2014 the apostle said (paraphrasing until I can get the exact wording), &#8220;Now we can get down to the <strong>real<\/strong> business of the church.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The woman said she turned back into the room and called him out on the statement. And he apologized profusely.<\/p>\n<p>It was interesting to see the response to this story. At hearing the statement from the apostle, there was a collective intake of breath from those in the congregation. At the retort, there was laughter. And there was furious scribbling all around. My reaction was mostly astonishment that, in such a setting, the woman would actually share the information!<\/p>\n<p>I honestly don&#8217;t remember the Young Women leader&#8217;s point in telling the story, but I think it&#8217;s germane to this discussion.<\/p>\n<p>If an apostle \u2014 someone active members (myself included) would generally agree is a deeply decent, honorable, spiritual man who is (if anyone is) getting spiritual insights about church members \u2014 can so easily dismiss the importance of women&#8217;s issues in the church, isn&#8217;t it likely that they are dismissed by &#8220;regular&#8221; male leaders fairly regularly? And if there are so few women to bring these issues to the forefront and to show their significance, isn&#8217;t it likely that many simply won&#8217;t be addressed?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose. ~ The Family: A Proclamation to the World Gender is part of who we are and who we have always been. It is important. It matters.\u00a0The church uses gender to delineate authority, callings, and roles: By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. ~ The Family: A Proclamation to the World Last night my third daughter graduated from seminary. On the back of the program, I noticed all those in the seminary &#8220;chain of command&#8221; for her seminary program. There were 24 people listed from the Timpanogos Region Board of Education, the Utah Valley North Area, the Church Educational System Executive Commitee, and The Church Board of Education. Of those 24 people, two were women. (Those two women \u2014 Sister Julie B. Beck and Sister Elaine, S. Dalton \u2014 were the only people listed without an official title or position. But that&#8217;s another post.) In her four years in seminary, there has been one female seminary [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":116,"featured_media":15760,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15754","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-corn"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/gender.png","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/116"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15754"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15754\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15759,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15754\/revisions\/15759"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15760"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/timesandseasons.org\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}