Comments on: Who gets to be a Mormon? https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/ Truth Will Prevail Sun, 05 Aug 2018 23:56:25 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.8 By: Brad L https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-533727 Tue, 22 Sep 2015 05:38:50 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-533727 Thelma,
1) Couldn’t someone claim to support God’s words and then not support the LDS leaders when they say something that he/she perceives to run counter to God’s words? The LDS leaders aren’t to be treated as if they are gods, right? Are all their words to be treated as if God is saying them? Too many contradictions to entertain that possibility.
2) “the ones that want to go are not forced to stay” – the possibility of ostracism, divorce, shaming/blaming, estrangement from family in essence force a great number of people who would like to leave the church on their own accord to stay in. Also, think of the relatively large number of LDS people between the ages of 8 and 17 who are in essence forced by their parents to go to church. The pressure on them to get baptized, attend church, attend activities, serve missions (if they’re male) is often so great in the Mormon belt that it could very well be considered a form of force. Sort of ironic given the fact that eight-year-olds are told that they have a choice to get baptized.
3) A great many have asked, or claim to have asked (including Kate Kelly), and believe themselves to have received an answer that is different from current LDS church doctrine and policy.
4) In terms of his culture, background, and heritage, how else should we define John Dehlin other than LDS?
5) The LDS church leaders tell missionaries (and they encourage all members to be involved in missionary work, so in essence every member is considered a missionary) to have believers in other religious doctrines question every piece of doctrine that they believe in that does not correspond with LDS doctrines. Questioning every claim to truth that someone makes and holding as true only that which is backed up by strong evidence seems like a good idea to me.

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By: Thelma Herrera https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-533721 Tue, 22 Sep 2015 02:39:44 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-533721 1- If we do not support our leaders, we do not accept God’s words
2- The church do not out people who want to be in, the ones that want to go are not force to stay.
3- If you do not support or believe in the LDS doctrine, why don’t ask and get a personal answer.
4- John Dehlin can call himself whatever he wants, I call myself LDS
5- We can have questions but do not doubth this is the Lord’s church, the world tells us to quesstion
every thing and if we are not satisfy with the answers, then it is not true, Im as Adam in the past
do not know avery thing but I know this gospel is true and it’s leaders inspired

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By: Steve Smith https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530332 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 23:19:31 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530332 ABM, no. 2, clearly. But I think that it is safe to say that most who attend regularly subscribe to the foundational doctrinal and historical claims of the church. Nonetheless, I don’t see how that challenges my previous point, which was that by virtue of being attending church regularly, you will likely be asked to devote some of your time and energy to callings. And most of those callings aren’t service-oriented in the way that SilverRain was talking about in comment 56. Very few actually are. Instead they are oriented towards teaching/advocating/defending/promoting (fn1) a number of key points about church doctrine and history. Even something as simple as teaching nursery involves the promotion of specific ideas about doctrine and history. Check out the updated 2015 curriculum: https://www.lds.org/manual/behold-your-little-ones-nursery-manual?lang=eng. Note lesson 9, which is about us having a body like God’s, lesson 21 about Joseph Smith seeing God and Jesus, lesson 22 about ancients in the Americas talking of Jesus appearing to them, and lesson 24 about following the prophet. Whatever general service (fn2) aspect there is to Mormonism (and Mormons are serviceable people by and large, don’t get me wrong), it is generally overshadowed by emphasis on key doctrinal and historical claims.

fn1 I think that you and others may have gotten confused with the term ‘defend’ thinking that I mean to produce a long apologetic formal defense of something. No, I mean simply to stand by an idea in the face of any perceived opposition. For instance, a believer in the idea that Joseph Smith saw God might defend the idea in the face of any perceived questioning or doubting by saying, “I prayed and asked God and could feel the spirit testifying the truthfulness of the first vision.”

fn2 As opposed to belief-specific service, such as proselytizing or temple service, which is recognized as serviceable only by cobelievers (I don’t know, might you or other believing active Mormons regard Southern Baptist proselytism to Mormons in Utah an act of service or Muslims praying in a mosque an act of service? I doubt it). Voluntarily attending to the sick and needy, by contrast, is recognized as serviceable by a large swath of the human population (at least we can hope that most human beings regard that to be serviceable).

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By: ABM https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530329 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 18:29:19 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530329 Steve,

Which person is more likely to be considered a Mormon? Not only by other Mormons but by non-Mormons?

1) A person who believes in all or at least most of the foundational doctrinal and historic claims of the church, but is rarely at church and doesn’t usually involve his or her self in church functions and initiatives. (Calling, temple, tithing, activities, etc..)

2) A person who holds some unorthodox or unusual beliefs in some cases but is often or always at church and is very involved (calling, temple, tithing, activities, etc.)

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By: Steve Smith https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530326 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 13:48:28 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530326 ABM, you originally got confused about what I meant by “defending doctrinal and historical propositions” in comment 62. I thought it was fairly clear, and that I was stating something rather obvious. But you had some bone to pick with my comment, and I could never tell exactly what it was. I almost felt like you were in blatant denial of what should be patently apparent in Mormonism, but I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt.

I think it would be apropos to conclude by tying my string of comments back in with the OP. Who gets to be Mormon? About anyone who desires to, but all those wishing to become Mormon or remain Mormon must be willing to interact with a group of people who places heavy emphasis on a number of doctrinal and historical propositions, probably much more than other religious groups, such as the Buddhists or liberal Protestant groups.

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By: ji https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530323 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 01:09:59 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530323 For the “doctrines” of Mormonism to have any value, one’s Mormonism must be a lived religion. Some Latter-day Saints try to live their religion, day by day — that’s great! That’s where the power of Mormonism in particular (and Christianity in general) is most effective in the work of saving souls. Essays and discourses on doctrine do no good whatsoever unless and until someone tries to live his or her religion.

To the person whose Mormonism is primarily doctrinal intellectual, that’s a good start — if he or she makes it a lived religion, that’s when the power of the gospel of Jesus Christ can become most meaningful.

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By: ABM https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530322 Mon, 16 Feb 2015 01:08:59 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530322 Steve Smith,

I am almost not sure what we are discussing anymore and as coincidence would have it, mine is the 99th comment. Suffice it to say, you and I see mormonism as focusing on different things.

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By: Steve Smith https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530320 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 18:42:28 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530320 ABM, you’re right that the doctrine of Christ’s atonement plays an important role, but 1) that confirms my original point about the primacy of doctrine and 2) JS, BOM, and continuing authority of current leaders are still more emphasized in the LDS church narrative, for a) that’s how the LDS church distinguishes itself from other Christian churches, and b) there is more to believing in Christ’s atonement than simply believing the record in the NT, according to Mormon doctrine, JS revealed more about Jesus than was supposedly previously known, thus making Mormonism’s Jesus a bit different from the Jesus of the rest of Christianity.

SilverRain, Mormonism = doctrine first, service second. I don’t see how that’s obtuse. At any rate, you don’t seem to have addressed my original objection to your comment.

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By: mirrorrorrim https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530312 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 05:51:12 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530312 Yeah, wow—I’m not sure why I wrote its name like that. Thanks for the correction. I found the website for it, though, and I’ve bookmarked it.

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By: SilverRain https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530311 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 05:21:55 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530311 Steve Smith, at this point I have a hard time convincing myself you’re not being deliberately obtuse.

Mirrororrim-It’s Story Trek. I think Mormons do it, but the stories are not strictly Mormon. It’s just an example of how sharing stories can bond people together rather than drive wedges, and how you can do it for the people, and not for an agenda.

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By: mirrorrorrim https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530310 Sun, 15 Feb 2015 05:07:02 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530310 Thanks for explaining, Silver Rain—that helps me understand a lot better.

And I will definitely check out Mormon Tracks. I didn’t know there were any other websites that do something similar to Mormon Stories. I’ll have to see how they compare.

And I also think it’s fair to be more skeptical of someone who makes money off of what she or he is saying. That is the very reason I often question the statements made by paid apologetics, religion teachers, and public relations representatives. If someone wants to do one of those things for her or his career, that’s his or her choice and I’m not going to judge it. But I think that person needs to accept the heightened public incredulity that comes with that, just in the same way a public business like McDonald’s needs to know that people should question any claims they make to be better or cheaper than their competition. They may still be right, but it’s their job to go above and beyond to prove it to us.

(for the record I prefer Wendy’s, but I’m a vegetarian so it probably doesn’t matter)

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By: ABM https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530295 Sat, 14 Feb 2015 18:11:17 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530295 Steve Smith,
More foundational than all of that though is Christ and the atonement. that is the crux of what I am thinking you are missing in your evaluation of the church.

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By: Steve Smith https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530289 Sat, 14 Feb 2015 16:06:02 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530289 ABM,

I think you are strangely focused on some aspects of mormonism just so you can ignore the rest of it

Yes, there is a lot to Mormonism. But the Joseph Smith story, the BOM, and the authority of the current leaders are foundational. As I mentioned in comment 91, it all starts with emphasis on those issues, service and other aspects of Mormonism are secondary. And you are strangely in denial of this. It is like you want Mormonism to be something that it just isn’t.

Those doctrinal and historic propositions are the reason that mormons do service… including missionary work. If the church is what it says it is, then missionary work and temple work are tremendous services in deed.

Here, you seem to be confirming what I’ve been saying all along: key doctrinal and historical propositions are emphasized first in Mormonism, then service. Also, bear in mind that missionary service is primarily devoted to getting others to subscribe to the church’s foundational doctrinal and historical assertions, so it isn’t really an act of general charity mentioned in comment 56, although it may involve such, but mostly only secondarily. Of course, in order for the ever time- and resource-consuming missionary work and temple construction/attendance to be considered acts of service to humankind, it is all contingent upon the church’s doctrinal and historical claims reflecting reality. For if the claims aren’t true, then these so-called services are nothing but giant wastes of time and money. Hence the church’s primary goal is to promote and defend its foundational doctrinal claims. I think that you agree with me more than you like to admit.

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By: Steve Smith https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530288 Sat, 14 Feb 2015 15:50:34 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530288

Those who follow the Savior are the real-deal

Would you be willing to say that a Mormon who accepted Joseph Smith as a lustful fraud, the Book of Mormon as a 19th century fabrication, and the current leaders as old men with antiquated opinions about gays and women could still be a ‘real-deal’ Mormon by being involved in acts of general charity and the following of Jesus’ words as recorded in the New Testament?

At the beginning of my mission…

Our discussion has nothing to do with whether you are doing the convincing as a missionary or the spirit. The fact remains that missionaries are asked to go around and tell people first and foremost about Joseph Smith being God’s and Jesus’ emissary, the Book of Mormon being a second testament of Jesus Christ, and current Mormon leaders having authority to administer God’s affairs on earth. Do you deny that that is the case?

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By: Steve Smith https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2015/02/who-gets-to-be-a-mormon/#comment-530287 Sat, 14 Feb 2015 15:34:29 +0000 http://timesandseasons.org/?p=32715#comment-530287 Roman, read the thread a little more carefully. I’m not trying to tell SilverRain what her experiences with Mormonism are. But she is undoubtedly getting the trend wrong. Leadership initiatives and cultural trends in Mormonism are devoted to indoctrination primarily, and general service projects (referred to in SilverRain’s comment 56) secondarily. Perhaps SilverRain’s Mormon experience has involved more of an emphasis on general service than I usually see, and I would commend her for that. But speaking of general service as the primary emphasis in Mormonism and the general trend in the culture is just not true.

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