Comments on: The “P” Word, Again https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/ Truth Will Prevail Mon, 06 Aug 2018 17:29:28 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.9.8 By: Michelle https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11595 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11595 This wasn’t a custody dispute – the mother just sued to prohibit the father from teaching about polygamy. Custody had already been decided as split. And as your questions implicate, the ruling could seriously quell what parents can talk to their kids about. This is a major affront to many rights — the right to free speech, the right to direct the education of your children, the right to privacy — and should not be tolerated.

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By: Cassie https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11596 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11596 Michelle,
But one could ask where would this stop….. is it then in the child’s best interest for parents to teach children racism, and hate and such?

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By: Kaimi https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11597 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11597 I thought the decision on polygamy was part of the resolution of the custody dispute, though the article is not particularly clear.

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By: Dave https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11598 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11598 Yes, it sounds like this was just part of the original custody agreement, and it also sounds like Dad is honoring the proscription but fighting it in court.

This sounds like a straight speech issue so it’s hard to see how the court can make an order of the form “you can’t speak to your daughter about X” stick. Dad could even cite Reynolds in his favor, as this is plainly belief, not practice.

Incidentally, if Dad can’t talk about it, then neither can Mom, so she would appear to be proscribed from reading certain LDS scriptures (D&C 132, Jacob 2) to the daughter, as well as a fair amount of 19th century LDS history. And if that applies to those two parents, I suppose it should apply to every parent in Pennsylvania, divorced or not. Hmmm.

Aren’t we glad this is a Pennsylvania case, not a Utah case?

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By: Matt Evans https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11599 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11599 Hi Cassie,

Why do you compare polygamy to racism and hate mongering? Polygamy is an accepted practice in Islam — should the government tell Muslims which parts of their religion they can teach to their children?

Should the state prohibit parents from teaching their children that homosexual behavior is sinful? that homosexuality is normal and acceptable?

You asked the right question — where will this stop?!

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By: Nate https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11600 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11600 Matt: As I understand it, polygamy is permitted by Islamic law, but I don’t think that it is encouraged per se. (In Islamic there are five categories: forbiden, discouraged, indifferent, encouraged, required. I think that polygamy is indifferent.)

On The Case: If both parents have a right to teach their daughter, why doesn’t the mother have a legitimate interest in controlling what is said to her child?

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By: brayden https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11601 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11601 I think the issue stems from what was in the original custody agreement. I have a friend who, recently divorced from his wife, allowed her to include in the custody agreement that he would not advocate the gay lifestyle (given that he is now openly homosexual). Further, when the children are in his house, he is required to read the scriptures daily with them and have FHE on Monday nights. I don’t see that this is any different from the PA polygamy case. Custody arrangements can not only tell parents what they should not be teaching their children but also what they should be teaching them. I’m fairly certain that if my friend had fought the arrangement hard enough in the beginning, all of it could have been avoided, but now that it’s in the arrangements, he must abide. One of you lawyers can inform me if I’m wrong on this point.

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By: Sharon https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11602 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11602 Just FYI, a judge ruled on Oct. 22 that Shepp and his ex-wife had both violated their child custody orders. She for not allowing Shepp to take Kaylynne on a vacation to Canada and he for teaching Kaylynne about polygamy. He was fined $250 at that time. He was recently fined $50 more and put on 6 months probation for not paying the original fine. The judge threatened him with jail if he doesn’t come through this next time with the money.

I’ve briefly met Stan and listened to him speak at Sunstone. I’ve sort of watched a metamorphosis in him over the past few years. I believe he is hoping to be a test case for more than just this. I believe he’d be willing to be a test case for polygamy in general. The advantage Stan has over Tom Green in making the attempt is a cleaner background. He has even condemned marrying young girls or step-daughters as Tom Green did. Still, he is part of Tom Green’s spiritual family.

(Strangely, philosophy and fundamentalist groups intrigue me.)

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By: Matt Evans https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11603 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11603 Hi Brayden,

I’ve never dealt with custody issues, but my legal intuition is that courts would be reluctant to enforce a provision that said what a parent could or couldn’t say to his children.

The parent would have a very strong case that the contractual custody arrangements were made under duress. There aren’t many forms of duress more palpable than the threat of not seeing your kids again if you don’t say what the court wants.

Hi Nate,
If polygamy is permitted, doesn’t that mean they accept it? Or did you mean that even though Moslems permit polygamy, given that their stance is indifference, it’s not something parents teach their children?

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By: Dave https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11604 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11604 I posted links to the Pennsylvania appellate decision and dissent at my weblog (click on Dave below), as well as a couple of other links on the interesting Mr. Shepp. He’s not your average trailer park polygamist, this one.

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By: Nate https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11605 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11605 Matt: My point about Muslims is that I don’t think they are a very good analogy to 19th century Mormons or modern Mormon fundamentalists. Mormon polygamists taught that polygamy was affirmatively commanded by God and that one’s willingness to enter into polygamy was a test of one’s obedience to him. As the persecution against polygamy intensified, so did Mormon teachings, and BY, Heber C. Kimball, John Taylor, etc. ended up strenuously arguing that polygamy was superior to monogamy.

I don’t think that there is any similar theological emphasis on polygamy in Islam. It is something that people can do if they want. I think that some interpretations of Shar’ia even put it in the discouraged camp, kind of like drinking Diet Coke, perhaps. Anyway, my understanding is that isn’t conceptualized as a divine commandment, a mark of special faithfulness, or anything like that.

Of course, I could be wrong on this. I am speaking on the basis of my vast experience of one class on Islamic Law at HLS. Someone correct me if they have good authority that I am mistaken.

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By: Cassie https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11606 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11606 “Why do you compare polygamy to racism and hate mongering?”
I was simply trying to find something else that is considered “not in the child’s best interest” I’m sure there are many things that one could argue ie. homosexuality, masturbating, pre-marital sex I just picked the first thing that came to mind. I apologize if it was a little extreme. My main point was, like you also said, where will this stop?

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By: Michelle https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11607 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11607 Good job Dave on finding the links. Yes – it appears that the original custody order included the prohibition on polygamous teachings. I wonder, though, why he didn’t fight it back in 2002. I think the custody order was different than the agreements Brayden is talking about in that Shepp didn’t appear to agree to the prohibition — it was a court order.

I agree with the dissent in the PA Superior Court — the trial court found that the teachings didn’t harm the child — and therefore weren’t against the “best interests” of the child. I think the important distinction here is between teaching it and practicing it. Polygamy in theory is arguably still part of the LDS church – not just the “fundamentalist” church — and it’s for sure part of our history. I’m sure many families in the church teach about polygamy — including the current prohibition, legal and religious, against it. Does this case draw the line sufficiently between teaching/advocating and just teaching? It doesn’t. The custody order prohibited Shepp from even talking about polygamy.

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By: lyle https://www.timesandseasons.org/index.php/2003/12/the-p-word-again/#comment-11609 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 /?p=175#comment-11609 How are my comments re: discomfort over the precise comments you deleted, grounds for deletion? Perhaps they were unnecessary since you deleted them?

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