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		<title>By: Don</title>
		<link>http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2009/10/gays-and-the-church-whose-ox-is-being-gored/#comment-301367</link>
		<dc:creator>Don</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 05:20:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that most people on the &#039;secular political left&#039;, although I am not 100% sure what that means, don&#039;t care one way or the other enough to criticize Mormons as most are of the &#039;live and let live&#039; mentality.  The current criticism that comes from homosexuals, although (surprise) many homosexuals also have deeply held religious beliefs, value their families, support their communities and cannot be lumped into the &#039;secular political left&#039; as you have done in such a cavalier manner, stems from the Mormon Church&#039;s efforts to demonize us and strip us of equal protection under the law.  Beyond that, most homosexuals could not possibly care less what Mormons believe or practice.  Ironically, Mormons have sought to align themselves with the hateful extremism of Evangelical Christianity perhaps in hopes of burnishing their &#039;Christian&#039; creds, but the Evangelicals hate Mormons only slightly less than they hate homosexuals.  Good luck with that alliance.  Mormons in general have almost totally aligned themselves with the far right wing of the Republican Party, and that alliance continues to fall out of favor with the American public, as this very day the &#039;favorable&#039; view of the Republican Party has fallen to a 25 year low. Good luck with that alliance too, and so much, BTW for Mormon political &#039;neutrality.&#039;  The primary spokespeople for this branch of Republicanism of course are Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity and Glenn Beck, himself a Mormon.  Mormons have painted themselves into a corner when their politics are seen by many Americans as represented by a drug addict who is a pathological liar, and Glenn Beck, who can only be described as one of the &#039;wingnuts&#039; you mentioned.  At least as far as homosexuals are concerned, you will be surprised how many of us simply don&#039;t care what Mormons believe--we just want you all to leave us alone, and to the extent that you are unable to control your obsession with trying to interfere with our lives and to demean, marginalize and make us unequal before the law, be prepared for the inevitable pushback.  It is of course, noteworthy, that in spite of histrionics about &#039;intimidation&#039; and &#039;violence&#039;, overwhelming protest against Mormons has been in the form of totally legal demonstrations on pubic property.  Not a single illegal act has been charged against any homosexual person or groups against any Mormon persons or property.  Such (reprehensible) acts of vandalism as have been reported could just as easily been your FLDS cousins who think that you are apostates.  Likewise, no person ever has been fired from a job because of support for Prop 8.  Two persons QUIT their jobs because of economic boycotts, a perfectly legal means of protest, unless of course  you feel that homosexuals should spend money to support their own persecution.  You may be giving yourselves &#039;high fives&#039; for defeating the &#039;immoral homosexuals&#039; this time, but remember  very close to half of Californians voted no, and many are furious that  Mormons feel the need to finance what they see is a continued  tradition of minority persecution--first the blacks, and now since they are not so much &#039;the Sons of Cain&#039; as they were for 150 years, it is the homosexuals who are trying to ruin everything.   Many people who are not homosexual, not of the &#039;secular left&#039; etc, are really, really angry and disgusted at the Mormons.  Good luck with that too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that most people on the &#8216;secular political left&#8217;, although I am not 100% sure what that means, don&#8217;t care one way or the other enough to criticize Mormons as most are of the &#8216;live and let live&#8217; mentality.  The current criticism that comes from homosexuals, although (surprise) many homosexuals also have deeply held religious beliefs, value their families, support their communities and cannot be lumped into the &#8216;secular political left&#8217; as you have done in such a cavalier manner, stems from the Mormon Church&#8217;s efforts to demonize us and strip us of equal protection under the law.  Beyond that, most homosexuals could not possibly care less what Mormons believe or practice.  Ironically, Mormons have sought to align themselves with the hateful extremism of Evangelical Christianity perhaps in hopes of burnishing their &#8216;Christian&#8217; creds, but the Evangelicals hate Mormons only slightly less than they hate homosexuals.  Good luck with that alliance.  Mormons in general have almost totally aligned themselves with the far right wing of the Republican Party, and that alliance continues to fall out of favor with the American public, as this very day the &#8216;favorable&#8217; view of the Republican Party has fallen to a 25 year low. Good luck with that alliance too, and so much, BTW for Mormon political &#8216;neutrality.&#8217;  The primary spokespeople for this branch of Republicanism of course are Rush Limbaugh, Sean Hannity and Glenn Beck, himself a Mormon.  Mormons have painted themselves into a corner when their politics are seen by many Americans as represented by a drug addict who is a pathological liar, and Glenn Beck, who can only be described as one of the &#8216;wingnuts&#8217; you mentioned.  At least as far as homosexuals are concerned, you will be surprised how many of us simply don&#8217;t care what Mormons believe&#8211;we just want you all to leave us alone, and to the extent that you are unable to control your obsession with trying to interfere with our lives and to demean, marginalize and make us unequal before the law, be prepared for the inevitable pushback.  It is of course, noteworthy, that in spite of histrionics about &#8216;intimidation&#8217; and &#8216;violence&#8217;, overwhelming protest against Mormons has been in the form of totally legal demonstrations on pubic property.  Not a single illegal act has been charged against any homosexual person or groups against any Mormon persons or property.  Such (reprehensible) acts of vandalism as have been reported could just as easily been your FLDS cousins who think that you are apostates.  Likewise, no person ever has been fired from a job because of support for Prop 8.  Two persons QUIT their jobs because of economic boycotts, a perfectly legal means of protest, unless of course  you feel that homosexuals should spend money to support their own persecution.  You may be giving yourselves &#8216;high fives&#8217; for defeating the &#8216;immoral homosexuals&#8217; this time, but remember  very close to half of Californians voted no, and many are furious that  Mormons feel the need to finance what they see is a continued  tradition of minority persecution&#8211;first the blacks, and now since they are not so much &#8216;the Sons of Cain&#8217; as they were for 150 years, it is the homosexuals who are trying to ruin everything.   Many people who are not homosexual, not of the &#8216;secular left&#8217; etc, are really, really angry and disgusted at the Mormons.  Good luck with that too.</p>
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		<title>By: Velska</title>
		<link>http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2009/10/gays-and-the-church-whose-ox-is-being-gored/#comment-301315</link>
		<dc:creator>Velska</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 06:34:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;blockquote&gt;At present, church members are likely to feel, with some justification, that they will be criticized for their views from both the secular political left and the evangelical political right.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

I think that if such is the case, all is as it should. We should not be too comfy with either fringe. There&#039;s a reason why words like &quot;wingnut&quot; were coined.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>At present, church members are likely to feel, with some justification, that they will be criticized for their views from both the secular political left and the evangelical political right.</p></blockquote>
<p>I think that if such is the case, all is as it should. We should not be too comfy with either fringe. There&#8217;s a reason why words like &#8220;wingnut&#8221; were coined.</p>
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		<title>By: Stephen M (Ethesis)</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen M (Ethesis)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 01:34:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;b&gt;As far as not demonizing &lt;/b&gt; any group, by any other group, it is a terribly hard thing to get people to give up.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>As far as not demonizing </b> any group, by any other group, it is a terribly hard thing to get people to give up.</p>
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		<title>By: DavidH</title>
		<link>http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2009/10/gays-and-the-church-whose-ox-is-being-gored/#comment-301267</link>
		<dc:creator>DavidH</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 16:24:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cameron,

There surely is a cognitive dissonance for many, who like me (and like you), believe in complete and full racial and ethnic equality, and the history of differential treatment within the Restored Church of individuals based on whether they were of black lineage (deemed descendents of Cain).

With all respect, early on in the discussion, you stated:

&quot;I cannot recall any official statement declaring a certain ethnic group to be inferior. Our doctrine, like that of most who believe the Bible is the word of God, is that we are all His children whom he loves and desires to succeed equally.&quot;

You are correct as to current official doctrine.

As to prior statements, if you choose to believe that there have never been &quot;official statement[s]&quot; declaring any ethnic group to be &quot;inferior&quot;, because the statements quoted are (1) either not &quot;official statements&quot;, or (2) because they do not use the word &quot;inferior,&quot; that is certainly your right to do so.

On the other hand, if it is your position that the Church has always officially taught that blacks (those deemed to be of descent from Cain) and whites are fully equal in God&#039;s eyes and in the then-current structure of the Church, then, my best wishes to you in trying to understand prior teachings of the Church (and its leaders), and in trying to square how blacks and whites were treated equally in the Church when, among other things, whites could be endowed and sealed in the temple in this life, but anyone with any known black ancestry could not.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cameron,</p>
<p>There surely is a cognitive dissonance for many, who like me (and like you), believe in complete and full racial and ethnic equality, and the history of differential treatment within the Restored Church of individuals based on whether they were of black lineage (deemed descendents of Cain).</p>
<p>With all respect, early on in the discussion, you stated:</p>
<p>&#8220;I cannot recall any official statement declaring a certain ethnic group to be inferior. Our doctrine, like that of most who believe the Bible is the word of God, is that we are all His children whom he loves and desires to succeed equally.&#8221;</p>
<p>You are correct as to current official doctrine.</p>
<p>As to prior statements, if you choose to believe that there have never been &#8220;official statement[s]&#8221; declaring any ethnic group to be &#8220;inferior&#8221;, because the statements quoted are (1) either not &#8220;official statements&#8221;, or (2) because they do not use the word &#8220;inferior,&#8221; that is certainly your right to do so.</p>
<p>On the other hand, if it is your position that the Church has always officially taught that blacks (those deemed to be of descent from Cain) and whites are fully equal in God&#8217;s eyes and in the then-current structure of the Church, then, my best wishes to you in trying to understand prior teachings of the Church (and its leaders), and in trying to square how blacks and whites were treated equally in the Church when, among other things, whites could be endowed and sealed in the temple in this life, but anyone with any known black ancestry could not.</p>
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		<title>By: Cameron</title>
		<link>http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2009/10/gays-and-the-church-whose-ox-is-being-gored/#comment-301253</link>
		<dc:creator>Cameron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 06:10:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sorry Don. No hard feelings meant. I am far less informed than Kaimi and yourself, and my posts are probably more an attempt to help myself better understand this complex issue than a contribution to the debate here.

Elder Packer probably should have qualified his remarks to a specific segment of the gay community.

As for homosexuals and BSA, I think beyond the moral reasoning, they seek to avoid abuse issues, which would obviously only present itself if a leader/boy were homosexual. When my dad was 13, a scout leader made a pass at him in his tent. Luckily, my dad was assertive enough. *please take this example in the spirit in which it was received - by no means do I assert that most homosexuals do this.*

I would chalk up the therapy BYU thing (of which I know nothing about) to sincere misguided attempts to help people, however revolting they seem from our current perspective.

Also, @ Queuno (144) - I&#039;m a Jim Brown fan, meant it as a joke. =)

Finally, with regards to all the quotes you&#039;ve informed me of, here are my thoughts:

1. Many of them do not expressly communicate that a black person is inferior, merely that something linked with racism (segregation) may be favorable. 

2. I suppose that many of them stem from an incomplete understanding of doctrine, aided by culture and circumstance of the day. If church leaders really were racist, then why no such remarks concerning polynesians, asians, etc?

Feel free to correct/educate me, as I&#039;m just seeking to better understand. Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry Don. No hard feelings meant. I am far less informed than Kaimi and yourself, and my posts are probably more an attempt to help myself better understand this complex issue than a contribution to the debate here.</p>
<p>Elder Packer probably should have qualified his remarks to a specific segment of the gay community.</p>
<p>As for homosexuals and BSA, I think beyond the moral reasoning, they seek to avoid abuse issues, which would obviously only present itself if a leader/boy were homosexual. When my dad was 13, a scout leader made a pass at him in his tent. Luckily, my dad was assertive enough. *please take this example in the spirit in which it was received &#8211; by no means do I assert that most homosexuals do this.*</p>
<p>I would chalk up the therapy BYU thing (of which I know nothing about) to sincere misguided attempts to help people, however revolting they seem from our current perspective.</p>
<p>Also, @ Queuno (144) &#8211; I&#8217;m a Jim Brown fan, meant it as a joke. =)</p>
<p>Finally, with regards to all the quotes you&#8217;ve informed me of, here are my thoughts:</p>
<p>1. Many of them do not expressly communicate that a black person is inferior, merely that something linked with racism (segregation) may be favorable. </p>
<p>2. I suppose that many of them stem from an incomplete understanding of doctrine, aided by culture and circumstance of the day. If church leaders really were racist, then why no such remarks concerning polynesians, asians, etc?</p>
<p>Feel free to correct/educate me, as I&#8217;m just seeking to better understand. Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Don</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:56:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cameron    I wonder how it is that you can &#039;disagree with what someone does and not hate or despise them&#039; since  you have not a clue what I &#039;do&#039; or I do not do?  Not one clue, except that I have told you that I am a homosexual.  How do you presume to know anything about what I do?  Furthermore, do you seriously attempt to tell homosexuals that their relationships are not equal to yours and expect us to swallow some nonsense about how you love us and do not seek to demonize us and efforts that seek to codify that inequality under the law should just be accepted by homosexuals because your view is founded and religion and &#039;aw shucks&#039; you are just the nicest people who love everybody?  I don&#039;t think so.....I&#039;m not playin&#039; that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cameron    I wonder how it is that you can &#8216;disagree with what someone does and not hate or despise them&#8217; since  you have not a clue what I &#8216;do&#8217; or I do not do?  Not one clue, except that I have told you that I am a homosexual.  How do you presume to know anything about what I do?  Furthermore, do you seriously attempt to tell homosexuals that their relationships are not equal to yours and expect us to swallow some nonsense about how you love us and do not seek to demonize us and efforts that seek to codify that inequality under the law should just be accepted by homosexuals because your view is founded and religion and &#8216;aw shucks&#8217; you are just the nicest people who love everybody?  I don&#8217;t think so&#8230;..I&#8217;m not playin&#8217; that.</p>
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		<title>By: Don</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:24:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>BTW Kaimi I think your name suits well what you have done in your piece, which I think is a thoughtful mostly coherent effort to address something enormously complex.  I wish I shared your willingness to look for a detente....I have no interest in detente or surrendering anything whatever to Mormons or the Mormon Church.  That time for me is long past.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>BTW Kaimi I think your name suits well what you have done in your piece, which I think is a thoughtful mostly coherent effort to address something enormously complex.  I wish I shared your willingness to look for a detente&#8230;.I have no interest in detente or surrendering anything whatever to Mormons or the Mormon Church.  That time for me is long past.</p>
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		<title>By: Don</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 05:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds a little angry I guess?  You don&#039;t even know the smallest part of how angry I am.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds a little angry I guess?  You don&#8217;t even know the smallest part of how angry I am.</p>
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		<title>By: Don</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 04:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As far as not demonizing homosexuals, how about Elder Packer&#039;s statement that &#039;homosexuals, feminists and intellectuals&#039; are the Mormon Church&#039;s &#039;enemies&#039;?  How about being called, &#039;perverts&#039; or &#039;deviants&#039;, or Prop 8 advertising which posits homosexuals as trying to &#039;destroy&#039; traditional marriage?  How about Mormon Church support of Dale vs. New Jersey which spared no effort in the Supreme Court to support the BSA&#039;s effort to exclude homosexuals?  (How would you explain that to my 3 boys--yes I am a parent--that we do not participate in scouting because the Mormon Church supports the exclusion of homosexuals in the BSA?)  How about electric aversion &#039;therapy&#039; used on homosexuals at BYU in the &#039;70&#039;s?  Personally, I have had enough &#039;love&#039; from the Mormon Church to last me many lifetimes, and until Mormons leave me and my family alone, I will not shut up and go away as Elder Oaks wishes I would.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As far as not demonizing homosexuals, how about Elder Packer&#8217;s statement that &#8216;homosexuals, feminists and intellectuals&#8217; are the Mormon Church&#8217;s &#8216;enemies&#8217;?  How about being called, &#8216;perverts&#8217; or &#8216;deviants&#8217;, or Prop 8 advertising which posits homosexuals as trying to &#8216;destroy&#8217; traditional marriage?  How about Mormon Church support of Dale vs. New Jersey which spared no effort in the Supreme Court to support the BSA&#8217;s effort to exclude homosexuals?  (How would you explain that to my 3 boys&#8211;yes I am a parent&#8211;that we do not participate in scouting because the Mormon Church supports the exclusion of homosexuals in the BSA?)  How about electric aversion &#8216;therapy&#8217; used on homosexuals at BYU in the &#8217;70&#8242;s?  Personally, I have had enough &#8216;love&#8217; from the Mormon Church to last me many lifetimes, and until Mormons leave me and my family alone, I will not shut up and go away as Elder Oaks wishes I would.</p>
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		<title>By: Don</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 04:50:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having come from a Mormon background, and as a returned missionary and BYU graduate, I am quite familiar with Mormons believe, including their racist past regarding blacks (actually better now than before), their hatred of homosexuals, and their current love affair with the far right wing of the Republican Party.  I could not possibly care less what Mormons believe or practice--I rejected the Mormon Church because I believe it is a smug, self righteous political and social organization that mirrors the far right wing of the Republican Party and corporate America and has no more to do with the teachings of Jesus than Chevron does.  That was my choice.  I have no interest in engaging or even criticizing what Mormons do or believe, except that Mormons have made it their business to denigrate me and my family, and to make us unequal before the law.  Until my equal rights as an American are secure, I will engage Mormons in every venue I can think of, and speak loudly and clearly of their smug, self righteousness and their endless hypocrisy.  Once my rights are secured, I will wish you all a not so fond farewell as you move on to another group to hate and you will never hear from me again.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having come from a Mormon background, and as a returned missionary and BYU graduate, I am quite familiar with Mormons believe, including their racist past regarding blacks (actually better now than before), their hatred of homosexuals, and their current love affair with the far right wing of the Republican Party.  I could not possibly care less what Mormons believe or practice&#8211;I rejected the Mormon Church because I believe it is a smug, self righteous political and social organization that mirrors the far right wing of the Republican Party and corporate America and has no more to do with the teachings of Jesus than Chevron does.  That was my choice.  I have no interest in engaging or even criticizing what Mormons do or believe, except that Mormons have made it their business to denigrate me and my family, and to make us unequal before the law.  Until my equal rights as an American are secure, I will engage Mormons in every venue I can think of, and speak loudly and clearly of their smug, self righteousness and their endless hypocrisy.  Once my rights are secured, I will wish you all a not so fond farewell as you move on to another group to hate and you will never hear from me again.</p>
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