Comments on: The Leader of the Band http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/ Truth Will Prevail Fri, 25 May 2012 03:45:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Raymond Takashi Swenson http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/#comment-267237 Raymond Takashi Swenson Tue, 17 Jun 2008 21:59:54 +0000 http://www.timesandseasons.org/?p=4608#comment-267237 Wow! I had no idea that other people identified with that song. My own Dad, now 80, served in the military as the drum major of a marching band in Japan. His only professional playing was with dance bands and combos that would play for weddings and such on weekend evenings. However, he served for decades as drum major of the Salt Lake Letter Carrier's Band, a band sponsored by his union when he delivered mail. He continued with the band even when he became a security guard and then retired. For many years, he marched at the head of the band in the 24th of July parade, wearing his tall Drum Major hat, blowing his whistle to signal the band, and tossing his baton high in the air to catch it again, or twirl it and gesture with it as the band marched drills while it progrssed down Main Street. For his 80th birthday party, the family assembled a lot of pictures from his life, and I created a video, entitled, of course, "The Leader of the Band." Wow! I had no idea that other people identified with that song. My own Dad, now 80, served in the military as the drum major of a marching band in Japan. His only professional playing was with dance bands and combos that would play for weddings and such on weekend evenings. However, he served for decades as drum major of the Salt Lake Letter Carrier’s Band, a band sponsored by his union when he delivered mail. He continued with the band even when he became a security guard and then retired. For many years, he marched at the head of the band in the 24th of July parade, wearing his tall Drum Major hat, blowing his whistle to signal the band, and tossing his baton high in the air to catch it again, or twirl it and gesture with it as the band marched drills while it progrssed down Main Street.

For his 80th birthday party, the family assembled a lot of pictures from his life, and I created a video, entitled, of course, “The Leader of the Band.”

]]> By: Jia http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/#comment-267068 Jia Mon, 16 Jun 2008 17:18:04 +0000 http://www.timesandseasons.org/?p=4608#comment-267068 Lovely to read. Thanks for sharing. Lovely to read. Thanks for sharing.

]]> By: kenjebz http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/#comment-267056 kenjebz Mon, 16 Jun 2008 15:53:53 +0000 http://www.timesandseasons.org/?p=4608#comment-267056 i remember that song being played by my uncle when i was 10 years old! but the lyrics is wonderful, as well as the voice of the singer. i never thought the lyrics is so beautiful that is perfectly fits to the fathers of today. i cannot say its a tribute to my father since i have had terrible experience with my father since i was six, but it is truly applicable to the fathers i know, and come to love. i remember that song being played by my uncle when i was 10 years old! but the lyrics is wonderful, as well as the voice of the singer. i never thought the lyrics is so beautiful that is perfectly fits to the fathers of today. i cannot say its a tribute to my father since i have had terrible experience with my father since i was six, but it is truly applicable to the fathers i know, and come to love.

]]> By: lamonte http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/#comment-267032 lamonte Mon, 16 Jun 2008 11:29:52 +0000 http://www.timesandseasons.org/?p=4608#comment-267032 Marc - I think it's a perfect tribute for father's day. Like Ray, I always felt this song described my own father as well, but not for the same reasons. The line "He tried to be a soldier once, but..." at least partially describes my father. He joined the army in 1938 as a means to better his own life. There was little opportunity in his small home town in the latter years of the Great Depression and he felt the army was one way out. Four years later he found himself in the midst of a world war and he served in North Africa, Sicily, Italy and in Southern Frane. By the end of the war he was a Chief Warrant Officer and he wanted to go to Officer Candidate School and become a commissioned officer. But my grandfather talked him into leaving the army and coming home to run the family farm - a decision I think my father has regretted ever since. My father is approaching his 89th birthday now and the one thing he instilled in me, probably because of his own decisions, is the desire to follow my dreams and do all I can to find happiness in this life. I love him for that encouragement and I have tried to follow his lead. Thanks for helping us all remember what good fathers do. Marc – I think it’s a perfect tribute for father’s day. Like Ray, I always felt this song described my own father as well, but not for the same reasons. The line “He tried to be a soldier once, but…” at least partially describes my father. He joined the army in 1938 as a means to better his own life. There was little opportunity in his small home town in the latter years of the Great Depression and he felt the army was one way out. Four years later he found himself in the midst of a world war and he served in North Africa, Sicily, Italy and in Southern Frane. By the end of the war he was a Chief Warrant Officer and he wanted to go to Officer Candidate School and become a commissioned officer. But my grandfather talked him into leaving the army and coming home to run the family farm – a decision I think my father has regretted ever since.

My father is approaching his 89th birthday now and the one thing he instilled in me, probably because of his own decisions, is the desire to follow my dreams and do all I can to find happiness in this life. I love him for that encouragement and I have tried to follow his lead. Thanks for helping us all remember what good fathers do.

]]> By: Ray http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/#comment-267012 Ray Mon, 16 Jun 2008 05:05:37 +0000 http://www.timesandseasons.org/?p=4608#comment-267012 Marc, I loved that song when it first came out, because it described my own father - and my band and choir directors in high school. Whenever I heard this song, my mind automatically jumped to the following lines: "He earned his love through discipline: a thundering, velvet hand. His gentle means of sculpting souls took me years to understand." "I thank you for the kindness and the times when you got tough, And, papa, I don’t think I said ‘I love you’ near enough." My dad never said, "I love you," so I never said that to him growing up. I say it every day, generally multiple times each day, to my own children (each and every one of them individually), and I made a point a few years ago to start saying it to my dad whenever we talked on the phone. I can't express how glad I am that I made that decision. Marc, I loved that song when it first came out, because it described my own father – and my band and choir directors in high school. Whenever I heard this song, my mind automatically jumped to the following lines:

“He earned his love through discipline: a thundering, velvet hand.
His gentle means of sculpting souls took me years to understand.”

“I thank you for the kindness and the times when you got tough,
And, papa, I don’t think I said ‘I love you’ near enough.”

My dad never said, “I love you,” so I never said that to him growing up. I say it every day, generally multiple times each day, to my own children (each and every one of them individually), and I made a point a few years ago to start saying it to my dad whenever we talked on the phone. I can’t express how glad I am that I made that decision.

]]> By: Alison Moore Smith http://timesandseasons.org/index.php/2008/06/the-leader-of-the-band/#comment-267006 Alison Moore Smith Mon, 16 Jun 2008 04:31:19 +0000 http://www.timesandseasons.org/?p=4608#comment-267006 Marc, that's a sweet memory. Thanks for sharing. Marc, that’s a sweet memory. Thanks for sharing.

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