Julie’s Conversion Story

November 24, 2005 | 4 comments
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[I'm reposting my conversion story here to round out our week of conversion stories.]

The reason that I don’t like to tell my conversion story is that it is boring. If I were to appropriate the famous Joseph Smith line, I would have to modify it thusly: “No man knows my history. . . . I don’t blame any one for not staying awake through my history. If I had not experienced what I have, I could not have stayed awake through it myself.� So don’t say I didn’t warn you.

I was raised in a very good, very normal, very happy family by a mother who was vaguely Catholic but only went to mass after natural disasters and an agnostic father. By age 14, I was a card-carrying atheist. (I actually attended a social with Madalyn Murry O’Hair, but that’s another story.)

When I was in high school, I began dating a boy, Jonathan, who was a member of the Church. I would occasionally ask him questions because I found it fascinating that an otherwise rational person could talk to me with a straight face about three parts of heaven, angels with gold plates, and the evils of drink. At this time, I was heavily involved in speech and debate and an important part of that little subculture is summer debate camp. I saved somewhere in the neighborhood of a thousand dollars from my after-school job at McDonald’s so that I could spend three weeks at the University of Michigan’s debate camp. At the airport, Jonathan gave me a gift. I unwrapped it on the plane and was disappointed to find a Book of Mormon. (Not a missionary edition, by the way, but a triple with his name embossed on the cover.) I stuffed it in my bag and went back to reading A Prayer for Owen Meany. I was excited about my cross-country adventure and a little nervous about my first major event away from home. I was a little disappointed that, out of the hundreds of debaters in three- or four-person dorm rooms, I had somehow been assgined a private room. No matter.

Debate camps are divided into working groups. I was pleased to find myself in the group led by the debate coach from none other than Harvard. (I had, at the time, the same starry-eyed awe of Harvard that I think most kids growing up in upper-middle class suburbs have.) I imagine that the Internet and the availability of laptops has changed everything that I remember about debate, but back in the olden days, debate camp meant lectures on theory and, mostly, time spent researching, making copies, and cutting and pasting briefs for use in competitions. Everyone in the group would get a copy of everyone else’s briefs to take home. Debaters would then lug file boxes full of these briefs to competitions to whip out in the heat of the contest. (To understand how important these things were, I will tell you that I, in all seriousness, asked my father if I could take six file boxes on our ski trip because I was afraid to leave them home alone.)

Anywho, one day found me with my fifteen or so group members–and the Harvard coach–happily cutting and pasting in a classroom. Two or three of the copies that I was working on had been incorrectly copied and were unreadable. I threw them away. A few days later, a member of our group found hundreds of pages of copies and briefs in the trash can. I was blamed, because I had been seen throwing some things away.

The debate coach from Harvard University wanted me sent home.

I was horrified. I was terrified. I was alone. It was Saturday. I didn’t know what to do. We had a group meeting the next morning. The only excuse for not being there was . . . if you were at church.

So it was obviously time for me to find religion. But which one? Seeing Jonathan’s triple, I decided the Mormons would be as useful as any for my purposes. Their address was listed in the welcome package. This could work.

So I went. I couldn’t believe that a normal-looking person was talking about Jesus spitting in mud. Whatever. By the time I got back, my fate had been decided: I was being demoted to a group run by some yahoo out of the University of Kansas or something, but at least I wasn’t being sent home in disgrace.

I puttered the rest of my time there, not really motivated to create the best briefs possible, not sure that I could salvage my reputation in the debating world once I got home anyway. I skipped meetings to sit on the grass and read Owen Meany.

One night, I was in my little hovel-room, watching lightning. I thought, “God’s power is amazing.�

What the hell was that? I don’t think that way.

But I knew it was true. Right there. That God existed. (The rest–the mud on the eyes, the angel and the plates–took a little longer.) I started spending more time in the grass, alternating my reading between the Book of Mormon and Owen Meany. Will you think me disrespectful-bordering-on-blasphemous if I tell you that Owen was nearly as instrumental in my conversion as Nephi was? I started praying. I went back to the little emaciated branch that met at the Institute the next week. When I got home, I told Jonathan that I wanted him to baptize me. He said that I had to talk to the missionaries first. I went through several sets of sisters and was baptized in the Spring of 1992.

I think the only interesting thing about my story is that I wasn’t looking for anything. I could hardly have had worse motives for going to Church that morning if I had tried. And where exactly did that reaction to the lightning come from? I wasn’t responsible for that. I didn’t find religion; it found me. Why? And why doesn’t that happen to everyone else?

I can’t believe you read this far. Please share your conversion story in the comments, if you are so inclined.

Due to the wonderful but rather meandering nature of the comments that my original post drew, I won’t keep with T & S precedent by sending you there to comment. Feel free to comment here.

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4 Responses to Julie’s Conversion Story

  1. Natalie Allyene Moon on November 24, 2005 at 12:50 pm

    Your story wasn’t boring at all! I really liked reading about debate camp and the megaton spark of electicity that led you to the realization that there is a God.
    The faith that you’ve gained from these events have made you the type of person to rub muddy balm on your eyes and see more clearly than ever.
    Have a happy Thanksgiving.

  2. manaen on November 24, 2005 at 4:48 pm

    Julie,
    Again-thank you for sharing your story. This is not boring. I like how pondering something greater than us triggered your acceptance. And, thanks to T&S for this series of conversion stories. My week’s brighter for them.

    Some are converted early, some late. Why? Who knows why God treats each of us as he does? Does it matter whether we do? We know that he loves each of us and so works in our best interest. We don’t know ourselves as well as he does nor do we fully understand his intermediate purposes. Does his difference in treatment among us come from things he knows about us that we don’t, because some of us are more useful for a while outside the Church, to develop greater persistence or strength in some of us? Beats me. I trust that regardless of how direct or convoluted our paths to get there, at the moment the door to enter the Celestial Kingdom opens, all who should be there will be there. What happens before that won’t matter.

  3. MahNahvu on November 25, 2005 at 2:36 pm

    Thank you Julie. Your writing has always been an inspiration on many levels.

    Please share your conversion story in the comments, if you are so inclined

    Having been born in the church my testimony developed mainly as a result of feeling the warmth of the Spirit when participating in church meetings, studying the scriptures and in personal prayer. However, one event stands out in my mind as being significant. While serving as a missionary in Blackpool, England in 1976 I spoke with a man while “tracting” who maintained that Jesus was merely one among many great prophets–not an uncommon belief to encounter. But it got me wondering why Jesus? If exaltation was some kind of achievement of perfection, I asked why we couldn’t somehow take all of the wisdom of the sages and (eventually) become perfect “on our own.” Why did we need Jesus?

    I retired to the little kitchen in our missionary “flat” to have the solitude for a more fervent prayer than usual and sincerely asked why we couldn’t succeed without Jesus. It was one of those longer-than-usual prayers, with extended periods of “listening” for inspiration. But as I began to loose focus and felt sleep overtaking me, I decided that it was time for bed.

    As I lay there, and entered that phase where I was partly awake and partly asleep, I found myself on Temple Square in Salt Lake City. It was General Conference time and the square was filled with conference-goers. Suddenly, emerging from within the crowd of people, President Kimball was standing before me. I decided to ask my question of the prophet. He responded “He that entereth not by the door into the sheepfold, but climbeth up some other way, the same is a thief and a robber.”

    I shot up in bed! I knew I had received an answer. But what did it mean? The phrase was vaguely familiar. I knew that it came from the somewhere in the New Testament. But I had never actually studied the passage. And what-the-heck was a sheepfold?

    It was several days before I could pull out the only reference materials available to us missionaries–Talmage(!)–who explained the whole reference to the sheepfold and the Door. It made perfect sense, that God is a god of order, and it follows that you can’t simply sneak into heaven. Jesus really is the gate that opens into the sheepfold of eternal life. Little did I know how very central to the gospel this message was. But what was clear to me at the time was that President Kimball had quoted me a scripture in a dream–a passage that I didn’t have a clue as to the meaning of. I had to go look it up. And it was the right answer.

    Revelation can come in silent whispers, but sometimes it is practically audible.

    -Steve

  4. Naiah Earhart on November 26, 2005 at 2:55 am

    You shouldn’t set the bar so low. Your story is not boring. On some level, you probably know that, and that’s why you bothered to repost it. :) I’m glad you did.

    I’m telling my conversion story in a series on my site, if you care to look. It’s all too tedious to lay out in a comment. Perhaps it’s arrogant of me, but there are so many little golden threads that, while unseen when they each came in to play together ended up weaving something beautiful in the end. So, I’m trying to lay all those out as I go. Now, anyone who stays awake through all that ridiculous self-focused storytelling, well, I don’t know what they deserve, but I’ll give them a gold star at least.

    Owen Meany…nostalgia wave…The quarry. I have such a vivid image of the quarry to this day. I get chills thinking about it.

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